Just out of interest I asked Josh and Grace;
‘Dylan always has a blanket on his head or his hood up or his head covered; do you know why?
Josh felt it was because the light might hurt Dylan’s eyes or maybe he wore it as he was worried about loud noises which might make him jump.
Grace felt that Dylan might be cold and so used it to keep warm.
I explained the insight that Dad and I got from a recent talk about Proprioceptive Dysfunction. For those not aware of the Proprioceptive sense it basically means to have an awareness of our own bodies in space and time.
– We know where our hands are without touching them.
– We know we are upright when standing and for example can easily gauge when there is a slope of step when we are walking. For this we can plan for the motion of adjusting to our environment as we are aware of where our bodies are in space.
Dylan has a dysfunction with this system. He will often appear to be “limp” and lethargic all the time despite being very active. He will frequently bump into objects and people accidentally and will trip and fall often, this is all due to him not being aware of his limbs or feeling able to maintain awareness of where he is in relation to himself or anywhere else. All elements of this affect his confidence and ability to integrate with others.
To explain this to Josh and Grace I used the example of our faces and heads.
‘How do we know we have a nose or a head on our neck without reaching up sand feeling it? – We just do, because we have this ability to sense it. Dylan doesn’t have this so much so maybe having a blanket over it helps him feel grounded and safe, so he knows where his head is.’
Both Josh and Grace looked at me thoughtfully, smiled and accepted it as a little nugget of Dylan wisdom.
Another little step of understanding.